Is the Guy really Interested - Looking for the Signs
Matters of the heart continue to be as complicated as ever. With the changing times, women are not as bashful. Yet there persists an ambiguity in the woman’s mind about the status and direction of the
relationship. It is difficult to tap the guy’s mind and conclude what is going to happen.
Whether it is the initial stage of mutual attraction or the couple has been dating for a while, the woman always wants to figure out how interested and serious her man is about taking their relationship to the next level. Talking directly or asking questions rarely helps. It might even increase the confusion. But for how long can the woman go on assuming and living merely in the hope that he will soon pop the question? Gone are the days of country belles who attracted beaux with their fluttering eyelashes, and waited to be proposed. Women now do not want to wait till forever.
It, therefore, becomes important to have a few clues that give insight to a man’s mind, watch out for those signs and then decide accordingly. Given here are a few pointers, found reliable by the experts, to know whether the guy is really interested or not:
Body Language – The first and foremost sign of interest from a man can be tapped through his body language. Even utter strangers send signals to each other (many a time, quite unknowingly though), through eye contact, gestures, etc. Find him looking at you often, making and maintaining eye contact and leaning in while talking, you can be sure that he likes you a lot. To have a better rapport with you, he might be mirroring your movements unconsciously.
Communication – When interested, guys pay a lot of attention to what the girl is saying. This is quite contrary to their basic nature of being a bit absent minded! When your banter has begun to take priority over the football scores or the guy gang jokes, one can ascertain that the man has been raptured. He would be noticing even the most trivial of things you say or think. Not to mention the fact that he will fish out those few extra minutes for a phone call, despite being super busy.
Finding Common Grounds – An interested guy would explore all that you like or dislike for instance your hobbies, favourite movies or music. Somewhere or the other he would try to find a common interest. He might as well try to explore all that you like. That genre of music or those candy floss movies which never appealed to him earlier would now be given at least one try.
Attention and Care – To the girl who is in a guy’s future plans, goes undivided attention and unchallenged priority. When in a group or a party, his focus will be on that one female. Otherwise too, he would show his care and concern in many different ways. He would be protective, a bit more than any casual friend would be. A flashy, revealing garment might be admired by many when you wear it, but the one who is genuinely thinking of you as his partner will be a bit put off when you wear it. Men are possessive.
The Respect Element – Watch out for how much respect the guy is showing to you in his words and actions. Pay attention to his language, his jokes, the methods he adopts to charm you. There would be a certain amount of dignity to everything if the guy sees you as a potential partner. If you are causing some harm to yourself unknowingly, he will make every effort to stop that. Most of the times he will not even let any ugly instances surface in front of you. Those who really love and care, do not feel the need to make a big show out of it.
Making You a Part of His Sanctum Sanctorum - He will be making efforts to introduce you to his closest friends, family members, etc. if you are already dating him, he would not shy away from introducing you as his girl-friend.
All said and done, it is important to give some time to know whether his interest is merely a fleeting one or the emotion is going to last. If his feelings are genuine, he would admire you with as much gusto even when you are in a foul mood or are having a bad hair day. He will stand by in all times of difficulty, big or small. He would laugh with you, notice how you smell and would never shy away from complimenting you.
Tags : Women, Guys, Interest, Relationships
Matters of the heart continue to be as complicated as ever. With the changing times, women are not as bashful. Yet there persists an ambiguity in the woman’s mind about the status and direction of the
relationship. It is difficult to tap the guy’s mind and conclude what is going to happen.
Whether it is the initial stage of mutual attraction or the couple has been dating for a while, the woman always wants to figure out how interested and serious her man is about taking their relationship to the next level. Talking directly or asking questions rarely helps. It might even increase the confusion. But for how long can the woman go on assuming and living merely in the hope that he will soon pop the question? Gone are the days of country belles who attracted beaux with their fluttering eyelashes, and waited to be proposed. Women now do not want to wait till forever.
It, therefore, becomes important to have a few clues that give insight to a man’s mind, watch out for those signs and then decide accordingly. Given here are a few pointers, found reliable by the experts, to know whether the guy is really interested or not:
Body Language – The first and foremost sign of interest from a man can be tapped through his body language. Even utter strangers send signals to each other (many a time, quite unknowingly though), through eye contact, gestures, etc. Find him looking at you often, making and maintaining eye contact and leaning in while talking, you can be sure that he likes you a lot. To have a better rapport with you, he might be mirroring your movements unconsciously.
Communication – When interested, guys pay a lot of attention to what the girl is saying. This is quite contrary to their basic nature of being a bit absent minded! When your banter has begun to take priority over the football scores or the guy gang jokes, one can ascertain that the man has been raptured. He would be noticing even the most trivial of things you say or think. Not to mention the fact that he will fish out those few extra minutes for a phone call, despite being super busy.
Finding Common Grounds – An interested guy would explore all that you like or dislike for instance your hobbies, favourite movies or music. Somewhere or the other he would try to find a common interest. He might as well try to explore all that you like. That genre of music or those candy floss movies which never appealed to him earlier would now be given at least one try.
Attention and Care – To the girl who is in a guy’s future plans, goes undivided attention and unchallenged priority. When in a group or a party, his focus will be on that one female. Otherwise too, he would show his care and concern in many different ways. He would be protective, a bit more than any casual friend would be. A flashy, revealing garment might be admired by many when you wear it, but the one who is genuinely thinking of you as his partner will be a bit put off when you wear it. Men are possessive.
The Respect Element – Watch out for how much respect the guy is showing to you in his words and actions. Pay attention to his language, his jokes, the methods he adopts to charm you. There would be a certain amount of dignity to everything if the guy sees you as a potential partner. If you are causing some harm to yourself unknowingly, he will make every effort to stop that. Most of the times he will not even let any ugly instances surface in front of you. Those who really love and care, do not feel the need to make a big show out of it.
Making You a Part of His Sanctum Sanctorum - He will be making efforts to introduce you to his closest friends, family members, etc. if you are already dating him, he would not shy away from introducing you as his girl-friend.
All said and done, it is important to give some time to know whether his interest is merely a fleeting one or the emotion is going to last. If his feelings are genuine, he would admire you with as much gusto even when you are in a foul mood or are having a bad hair day. He will stand by in all times of difficulty, big or small. He would laugh with you, notice how you smell and would never shy away from complimenting you.
Tags : Women, Guys, Interest, Relationships
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